There is no way that a woman can enjoy sex if her vagina is not lubricated. She should feel good and be wet so that the penis slides smoothly in and out, and even in penetrations for the first time.
Most of the time, lubrication occurs naturally when a woman is aroused: her vagina produces secretions that moisten her and make her slippery. It can happen instantaneously, although in general, it requires a particular time, up to twenty minutes or more. But it will not happen if all the conditions relating to sex are not correct.
Lubricants are an excellent sexual aid when the vagina does not produce its lubrication. This can happen even if the girl’s mind is fully prepared for sex: there are times when the body does not cooperate (although if she does not produce lubrication, it might be good to ask her if she wants to be penetrated).
When the vagina is dry, the penis cannot easily slide in and out, and the girl will feel pain or discomfort. Place a water-soluble lubricant smeared directly on the condom and added to the vagina as required. The lubricant is always necessary in the case of anal sex and can also be useful for female masturbation.
With latex products such as male condoms, diaphragms, cervical shields, and gloves-only a water-soluble lubricant can use. Oil-soluble products can damage the latex, as a result, germs or sperm can pass through it. The most popular option is the K-Y jelly, which can obtain in most pharmacies, as well as other similar brands. Lubricants based on petroleum derivatives can only be used with the female condom or with other polyurethane products.
It is difficult for girls to achieve good lubrication if they feel reluctant to have sexual intercourse, they have to be unpleasant, nervous or worried about pregnancy, as well as if they are tired, feel rushed to perform the sexual act or are somehow distracted from the pleasure of being aroused.
In some cases, this is because their partners do not know how to excite them and do not dare to ask. Or maybe the male tries the penetration too soon before she has time to produce the lubrication. At this time, it is not too late for the girl to tell her partner what she likes and does not like.
Good communication is essential… If the connection is clear, the distractions will be resolved, and even then the vagina is dry, the problem can solve with water-soluble lubricants that sold in stores, these are safe and offer a similar result to natural secretions.