What does a vibrator really do to generate pleasure?
A vibrator is an electric massage device, which sometimes has the shape of a penis or a vagina. It serves to stimulate the erogenous zones and to provide pleasure.
The vibrator can be used anywhere on the body. A very popular place is the clitoris, and another, the entrance of the vagina. It is always recommended to use a lubricant before using a vibrator whether you use it in your vagina or penis.
Vibrators can be obtained at sex shops and some pharmacies.
Will my vagina grow if I masturbate?
No. What can really affect the size of the vagina is giving birth, but no matter what size your vagina, this does not affect sexual pleasure. The nerve endings are not in the vagina. These are found in the clitoris and at the entrance of the vagina.
Is it considered masturbation only if orgasm is reached?
No. Any manipulation of the genitals that provides pleasure, orgasmic or not, is considered masturbation.
Can self-indulgence cause problems with the sexual act?
No. In fact it can help. Masturbation shows you what gives you the most pleasure. If you know this, it is easier to guide your partner towards actions that really excite you without the need of sexual intercourse. One study showed that young women who had a lot of experience with masturbation, both personal and as a couple, were more likely to get pleasure from the first time they performed the sexual act than those who did not have experience.
Does the G-spot really exist, how do I find it?
G-spot is a small area inside the vagina, in the upper wall, which can produce very intense orgasms when rubbed. It was named after Dr. Grafenberg who was the first to discover it.
Researchers estimate that about 40 percent of women have the G-spot. If you or your partner manages to locate through mutual sexual exploration, then you can touch or rub until you achieve orgasm.
Since not all women have the G-spot, it is possible that you and your partner cannot locate it. That does not matter, the same G-spot search can be sensual and stimulating, and all orgasms, no matter where they come from, are pleasurable. In personal masturbation, if you ever use a vibrator, inserting it, it is possible that, if you pay attention, locate the G-spot on the upper part of the vaginal wall, but remember it does not really matter if you do not have it.